![]() Daddy, am I doing it right? Am I fucking you hard enough?' ![]() 'Daddy, your cock feels so good inside me. I have always been concerned about the way he looked at our grown up daughter Luna. It was quite the sight seeing her on top of him, riding up and down on his cock. He testified that the Mom dropped her daughter off and would return in the paid for four hours. I was scheduled to return on Friday evening. The mom insisted, her daughter was starting summer school at her university and mom stated she needed to sneak in a session on Thursday. ![]() A protection against an early return and give him time to clean up all the bedrooms. It violated his safety rule of no dates on the day before my planned return. The mom asked him to teach her daughter about sex. It was ironic that I caught him with an 18 year old. It was agreed there was a minimum to be paid to the women. The men called a Google Voice number and left their preferences. He knew from experience what the woman needed out of the 'date'. They could choose from a 'catalogue' but the value could not be more than $100. He had a sporting goods store, I had a bookstore. The men paid him $500 via Venmo in exchange for some small gift which made it look like a legit transaction. He did not get involved in the payments from the men to women. If a mom passed the audition, she was in and started 'dating'. He would 'audition' the moms and sometimes grand moms before setting up 'dates' for them. He used all the bedrooms for his clients. for MILFs! I was out of town on book tours so much, I never took notice. Mason made a stupid mistake too, using our home to run a sex dating business. Freedom from the biggest mistake I have ever made. There are many other examples of relational aggression, too many to list.Finally, the divorce was done. Some examples of what relational aggression looks like at the elementary level are: whispering, eye rolling, hair tossing, glaring, looking at student outside of the group and giggling, excluding girls or boys from a group or game, put downs, talking behind each other’s back and teasing. By seeing us set the example girls will feel more empowered to be assertive. This will not only promote personal awareness, but it is modeling how we expect victims of relational aggression to handle these conflicts. In some cases you may want to pull the student aside and tell her what you are seeing and ask her to stop. As teachers and parents we need to set clear expectations of behavior, and when we see relational aggression happening, simply point it out and ask for it to stop. Our job is to help them become aware of how they are behaving and affecting their friends and other kids around them. Let me be clear, in no way do I believe we should make a spectacle of “mean girl” behavior. WE MUST begin to identify this behavior as soon as we see it happen. WE MUST NOT let relational aggression happen right in front of us. What girls need the most is positive role models for behavior, and adults they can talk to, who will listen to and respect the difficulties they are having. We, as parents and school staff, must STOP overlooking this as a problem. (Grown women still experience this hierarchy of popularity, and cliques in their work places). Relational Aggression exists, and it is worse than ever, effecting girls as young as kindergarten and following them in many cases through adult hood. In my personal research and training on the topic, I have found that most experts agree on a few things: In the last decade there has been some wonderful research done on relational aggression and the devastating effects it has on our girls and boys. In relational aggression girls use their friendship, humiliation techniques, gossip, exclusion, and social hierarchy as weapons. Relational aggressionusually involves groups and/or cliques, and is also referred to as “the hidden way girls bully”. Relational aggression refers mainly to the way girls bully, and while this article will focus on girls, please note that boys are beginning to use this form of aggression as well. I am talking about relational aggression. Last month’s counseling corner spoke about cyber bullying, this month I would like to introduce you to another form of bullying that has been prevalent in our schools for decades, but is only recently making its way into main stream discussions on the topic.
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